I’m sure all of you have been through this one phase in your lives where
you suddenly feel that you’re not what you were and you suddenly become
unhappy with the way you’re living. I
have been there too. I hated myself and what I had become. I failed to
recognise myself and I was frustrated, guilty, hurt and confused. Just then, I
came across a saying that read “If you don’t like where you are change it. You
are not a tree !”
I reflected on it and put it into action.
These lil pointers helped me, I hope they can be of some use to you too
:
BELIEVE : You have to know it in your heart that you can make your situation
better. Trust in yourself ! You’re mind is a powerful weapon. Stay positive.
CREATE OPPORTUNITIES : Sometimes all you need is twenty seconds of insane
courage. Just literally twenty seconds of just embarrassing bravery. And I
promise you, something great will come of it. Like the guy? Tell him !!! Want your
dream job ? Go for the interview ! You don’t like the way someone is behaving
with you ? Open up ! You don’t like the person you have become ? Change
yourself ! You don’t need results, give yourself a bravery award – You tried.
STRIVE HARD : You can’t expect your life to magically change. You need
to work as hard as you can in order to better yourself and your life. Make a
list of all that you want, create a deadline, make that your aim. Say a firm NO
to everything that drives you away from your aim. You want a better tomorrow,
no?
GIVE IT A CHANCE: Let go of all the emotions and pains. They don’t
belong to you. You are amazing. Give yourself a chance. Like i said before,
BELIEVE.
FIGURE IT OUT : If you wish your situation was different, change it! You
have the power to make your life worth living. Has there ever been a person or
event that has changed your life for the better? Contemplate on that event, Spend
more time with that person. Find someone whom you can confide in, someone who
knows you well, Someone who believes in the better you. Ask him/her to guide and
correct you. You cannot always win a battle alone.
PRAY: That’s what I did, and always do. I believe, that whatever you ask
in prayer with faith shall be received.
